Wirecutter bugs the hella out of me, recently with their The 3 Best Steak Knife Set article.
If you want "the best", read up on these ones first.
Start with Roland Lannier steak knives (top). You've already used one if you eat at really cool restaurants. If you're looking for the absolute best, I say these ones and don't need to read/research any further.
You can go with a classic Laguiole steak knife set (middle). I like the olive wood ones a lot and will use this set for special occasions.
And finally, the Tojiro steak knife (bottom) is really nice. Buy that set for every day use.